p.2/ The Ultimate Guide to Destination Elopements and Honeymoons
Discover everything you need to know about planning a destination elopement. From top locations like Iceland and Italy, to legal requirements, budgeting tips, and how we can help create your dream celebration.
The way couples celebrate their love has evolved dramatically in recent years. Gone are the days when a traditional wedding with hundreds of guests was the only option. Today, more couples are choosing intimate destination elopements followed by dreamy honeymoons, or combining both into one unforgettable adventure. If you’re considering breaking away from convention, this comprehensive guide will help you navigate the exciting world of destination elopements and honeymoons.
What is a Destination Elopement?
A destination elopement is an intimate wedding ceremony held in a location away from your hometown, typically with just the couple or a very small group of close family and friends. Unlike traditional elopements of the past (which often implied secrecy or spontaneity), modern destination elopements are thoughtfully planned celebrations that prioritize the couple’s experience over elaborate productions.
These ceremonies can take place anywhere in the world—from a clifftop in Santorini to a forest in Iceland, a beach in Tulum, or a vineyard in Tuscany. The emphasis is on meaningful moments, stunning scenery, and creating an experience that truly reflects who you are as a couple.
Why Couples Choose Destination Elopements
Intimacy and authenticity. With fewer people present, couples can focus entirely on each other and the commitment they’re making. There is no performance anxiety, no managing complex family dynamics, and no pressure to be “on” for hundreds of guests.
Reduced stress and planning. Traditional weddings often require a year or more of planning, coordinating vendors, managing guest lists, and making countless decisions. Destination elopements are significantly simpler to organize, with many locations offering elopement packages that handle most details.
Cost effectiveness. While destination elopements are not always cheaper than traditional weddings, many couples find they spend less overall. The average wedding costs tens of thousands of dollars, while a destination elopement might cost a fraction of that, even when including travel expenses.
Built-in honeymoon. One of the biggest advantages is that your wedding location becomes your honeymoon destination. You are already in a beautiful place, so why not stay and explore?
Stunning photography. Imagine your wedding photos set against the Northern Lights, dramatic mountain ranges, tropical beaches, or historic European architecture. Destination elopements offer backdrops that no reception hall can match.
Adventure and meaning. For couples who love travel and adventure, a destination elopement turns your wedding into an experience rather than just an event. It becomes a story you will tell for the rest of your lives.
One of the most appealing aspects of a destination elopement is seamlessly transitioning into your honeymoon.
Why Work with I Do, Adieu for Your Elopement or Honeymoon?
Planning a destination elopement or honeymoon can feel overwhelming, especially when you are coordinating across time zones, navigating unfamiliar locations, and trying to ensure every detail is perfect. That is where I Do, Adieu comes in.
As specialists in destination elopements and honeymoon planning, we take the stress out of the process so you can focus on the joy and excitement of your celebration. Here is what we offer:
Expert destination knowledge. We have established relationships with vendors, venues, and local experts in top elopement and honeymoon destinations worldwide. We know which locations are best for different seasons, which vendors deliver exceptional service, and which hidden gems will make your experience truly special.
Customized planning. Every couple is unique, and your elopement or honeymoon should reflect your personalities, values, and vision. We do not believe in one-size-fits-all packages. Instead, we listen to your dreams and craft a completely personalized experience that’s authentically yours.
Seamless coordination. From securing marriage licenses and permits to booking photographers, arranging accommodations, planning activities, and handling logistics, we manage every detail. You will have a single point of contact who ensures everything runs smoothly.
Time and stress savings. Planning a destination celebration while juggling work, life, and possibly even planning a traditional wedding or post-elopement party can be exhausting. We handle the research, negotiations, and coordination, giving you back your time and peace of mind.
Vendor vetting and quality assurance. We work only with thoroughly vetted, trusted vendors who share our commitment to excellence. You can trust that your photographer will show up on time, your flowers will be beautiful, and your officiant will create a meaningful ceremony.
Budget optimization. We help you get the most value for your investment, leveraging our industry relationships and expertise to stretch your budget further without compromising on quality or experience.
Support throughout your journey. From your initial consultation through your return home, we are available to answer questions, handle issues, and ensure you feel confident and excited about your plans.
Whether you are planning an intimate cliffside ceremony in Big Sur, a romantic elopement in the French countryside, an adventurous celebration in New Zealand, or a luxurious honeymoon in the Maldives, I Do, Adieu brings expertise, creativity, and dedication to making your dreams come true.
Ready to start planning your destination elopement or honeymoon? Contact I Do, Adieu today to schedule a consultation and begin crafting your unforgettable experience.
The Emotional Aspect
One aspect of destination elopements that surprises many couples is the emotional intensity. When it is just the two of you (or a very small group) in a stunning location, the ceremony becomes incredibly intimate and meaningful. Many couples report feeling more present and emotionally connected than they think they would have at a traditional wedding.
However, some couples also experience unexpected feelings about not having certain people present. It is okay to feel both joy about your choice and some sadness about the people who are not there. These feelings can coexist. Some couples address this by having phone calls with parents or close friends immediately after the ceremony, or by planning that post-elopement celebration where everyone can share in the joy
The Bottom Line
Destination elopements and honeymoons represent a shift toward prioritizing experience, authenticity, and what truly matters to the couple. Whether you are eloping on a mountainside in Patagonia or honeymooning in the temples of Angkor Wat, these journeys create powerful memories and start your marriage with adventure, intimacy, and intention.
There is no single right way to celebrate your love. Traditional weddings are beautiful for many couples, while others find that destination elopements better reflect their values and relationship. The key is choosing what feels authentic to you, planning thoughtfully, and then being present for every moment of the experience you create.
Your wedding day and honeymoon are the beginning of your next chapter together. Making them memorable, meaningful, and uniquely yours—whether that involves 200 guests or just the two of you on a remote beach—is what matters most.
And if you are ready to turn your destination elopement or honeymoon dreams into reality, I Do, Adieu is here to guide you every step of the way. Let us create something extraordinary together.